The Changing Dynamics of Family Structure and the Impact on Youth
November 13, 2024
Over time, I’ve observed shifts in our family and household struc-tures, which differ significantly from the traditional Western model. Here, matrifocal families—centered around the mother, sometimes with or without a male partner—are more common. In fact, around 20% of families are led by single mothers. Another distinctive aspect is the prevalence of the extended family, where multiple generations live together, often with the grandmother playing a central role in the family unit.
However, the introduction of neoliberal policies in the late 1980s brought new challenges, particularly for single-parent households. As financial pressures mounted, parents had to work longer hours, leav-ing less time for raising children. Children, once seen as an invest-ment for old age, were now perceived as an economic burden. Tradi-tionally, children were expected to support their parents later in life, a form of security in a place where pensions remain poorly structured for many. This system, once a source of stability, has become less reliable, and cases like the Ennia pension debacle illustrate these vulnerabilities.
In the past, it was not unusual for children, even in their forties, to continue living with their parents. This trend is now declining as it has become financially impractical, and many older adults seek inde-pendence. They would rather enjoy their lives—dancing at Sambil, for instance—than bear the economic and emotional weight of extended co-residence.
The result of these changes is a growing number of young people left to fend for themselves, facing financial and psychological strug-gles that they find difficult to overcome. Some view emigration to the Netherlands as a solution, while others may unfortunately turn to less positive outlets.
What’s the takeaway? Our children didn’t ask for this situation. They are the product of our society and our choices, and they remain our children through thick and thin. It i is our responsibility to con-sider the long-term impact of these shifts and to provide them with the support they need to thrive.
Miguel Goede
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